My husband made our first strap on harness out seat belt straps he cut off of a shopping cart. You can find a tutorial by googling "make your own strap on harness" It was really effective and free, just a little bit of sewing. Also my best friend always suggests an old bra. Use the arm straps for the legs and cut a slit just big enough to slide it in between the cups. Then you can stitch or tape it in.
How is your family, with you dating a transguy? I'm dating one and I know for a fact my parents would kill me. Thanks
Anonymous
My mom is very open about it and does not care one bit. My dad is also super supportive. My brother jokes with him about it, but doesn’t care. I have not told my sisters or my step mom because I am not very close with them, but I would imagine my step mom would make a snooty remark and be mean about it, so I probably won’t tell her till I am out of the house. Being honest with people that are close to you is probably the best option, especially people that see him a lot. It helps if one or two less people don’t misgender him or call him by his birth name, it can lessen his dysphoria, well at least for Luc.
Hey, can you please please get Luc to answer the question I sent for him yesterday?
Anonymous
Yeah, I will have him do that tonight, the only time I saw him yesterday we were at a meeting.
So.. I think you guys could look into getting a harness. Maybe even try a packer harness. Hope I helped :)
Anonymous
We are broke, that’s our problem. lol
Hi Anne :) So, I have a question for you. How do you identify? Like.. are you straight, lesbian, bi, etc.? Thanks.
Anonymous
Hiiii(:
I find myself attracted to trans* men and cis women only.
Our Fancy Strap On
So Luc and I got this vibrator probably about 7 or 8 months ago and its a normal white vibrator, not bendy. Well it is now our strap on, it hurts so bad if you move wrong, or it goes in wrong, because well it doesn’t bend. On top of that we have to put in in our zipper of our pants with a shit ton of tape around it so it is even a strap on. HELLPPP!!! How can we make a strap on? I know at least one person has made their own strap on. Or how can we make this work?
TMI tuesday ya’ll. Ask me anything personal and I will answer honestly! Or ask anything to Luc and I will make him respond!
You really need to check your ask box more often...
Anonymous
sorry things have been super hectic. forgive me?
My girlfriend and I are looking for a good prosthetic to use in the bedroom. We want something of good quality with a realistic feel. Suggestions?
Anonymous
I have no experience with prosthetics. If someone has experience could you help please (:
I would go to the blog, fuckyeahftms.tumblr.com, they have a lot of information and if you can’t find anything you can always submit an ask! Hope this little bit helped. Oh you could also possibly try transbodypride.tumblr.com…sorry rambling.
xoxo
