My husband made our first strap on harness out seat belt straps he cut off of a shopping cart. You can find a tutorial by googling "make your own strap on harness" It was really effective and free, just a little bit of sewing. Also my best friend always suggests an old bra. Use the arm straps for the legs and cut a slit just big enough to slide it in between the cups. Then you can stitch or tape it in.
How is your family, with you dating a transguy? I'm dating one and I know for a fact my parents would kill me. Thanks
My mom is very open about it and does not care one bit. My dad is also super supportive. My brother jokes with him about it, but doesn’t care. I have not told my sisters or my step mom because I am not very close with them, but I would imagine my step mom would make a snooty remark and be mean about it, so I probably won’t tell her till I am out of the house. Being honest with people that are close to you is probably the best option, especially people that see him a lot. It helps if one or two less people don’t misgender him or call him by his birth name, it can lessen his dysphoria, well at least for Luc.
So Luc and I got this vibrator probably about 7 or 8 months ago and its a normal white vibrator, not bendy. Well it is now our strap on, it hurts so bad if you move wrong, or it goes in wrong, because well it doesn’t bend. On top of that we have to put in in our zipper of our pants with a shit ton of tape around it so it is even a strap on. HELLPPP!!! How can we make a strap on? I know at least one person has made their own strap on. Or how can we make this work?
My girlfriend and I are looking for a good prosthetic to use in the bedroom. We want something of good quality with a realistic feel. Suggestions?
I have no experience with prosthetics. If someone has experience could you help please (:
I would go to the blog, fuckyeahftms.tumblr.com, they have a lot of information and if you can’t find anything you can always submit an ask! Hope this little bit helped. Oh you could also possibly try transbodypride.tumblr.com…sorry rambling.
my boyfriend started testosterone recently and part of me is terrified.
I have been told that a lot of stuff you here about T is false. One big common misconception is getting angry and becoming an asshole, for lack of a better word, but I was informed by a few trans*guys that I know personally that this is not true. I’ve heard that most changes are physical, and some emotional. I’ve heard that they are not as emotional as before. (I just want to say that it is different for every guy and that these things might happen/not happen to your boyfriend) I wouldn’t worry about him, I am sure he will be perfectly fine. He will probably be a much happier person!
PART 1 Hey :) So I've been meaning to ask you something for a while. I'm a lesbian, and I'm dating a transguy. He's really amazing and he means the world to me.I really love him a lot, and he cares about me. But, I’m kind of struggling with something. He lives far away, and both of our sets of parents are incredibly homophobic. They don’t know we’re dating. I’m 17 and he’s 19. I’ll be 18 soon. So you know, we umm.. dirty talk a lot lol. But the problem is, that whatever I do,
PART 2 and whatever I say he always wants to put me in the “standard” sex position. You know what that is haha. It’s just that I don’t like to always do that. I like to change it up. I’m sympathetic toward him, and I feel like he hasn’t had the chance to live out his life. To be the man he really is. I don’t want to hurt him, because he already gets hurt enough. But it’s really taking a toll on me, because I want our time together to be fun for the both of us. Thanks. :)
I have never been in a long distance relationship with a trans*guy so I’ve never really sexted or anything with one, but I would talk to him about it, not during obviously, but I know Luc is like that too, he doesn’t like to switch things up very often, so it might be all he knows, or it might be the only thing that really gets him going. I would definitely just talk to him. I hope I helped!